I have a "friend" that I have been friends with her for five years. In those five years I have changed so much that the people I use to associate with five years ago don't recognize the person that I am. She hasn't changed a single bit since we met. She still slacks in school because she just doesn't have the motivation to do it, she flakes out on activities we are going to do at the last minute and she could set up the activity and still flake on me. Change has to happen in order for people to have the relationship they need with the other person. She was an hour and a half late to my husband's birthday! Who does that! Then she was late to our Christmas Eve dinner by 2 hours so my family and I ate and then they waited for the two hours for her to show up.
She refuses to change,and I wont stop changing. I am tired of her not being the friend I need her to be. She calls me a bad friend because I wont accept her to be a bad friend to me. I have given her my time, I have given her gifts out of the blue. I was always on time to things. I finally told her I can't do this relationship anymore because I need to change. I might be a "bad" friend, but at least I am a better friend then she is.
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